"I have not been
handicapped by my condition. I am physically challenged and differently
able."
- Janet Barnes
Janet Barnes was recognized as the longest living
quadriplegic in the world in 2011. Then aged 83, her life story is quite
inspiring. Born with a broken neck the doctors told her parents that she wouldn’t
live past 14 years. But she did. She went on with her life, married & today
has children of her own.
What tempted me to read about her was a Saturday spent
quite unusually! After 3 weeks in to the most atypical appointment thus far, I was
far from expecting a normal day of course! So when I saw that the scheduled
visit was to Victoria Home in Rajagiriya, I knew it was going to be quite different.
Going pass the home every day, I always used to wonder about the “Achchis &
seeyas” who would wave at all the passing vehicles. I used to think it was an elder’s
home. Apparently I have been quite ignorant!
It admits physically handicapped people by birth, illness or accidents between the ages of 18-55. Established in 1888, It is funded by the government, but it’s not under any ministry.
Upon arrival we were greeted by the director and
ushered in to the board room for a general introduction where he spoke about
the history & the management of the place.
Then we were allowed to visit the wards. There
are currently 175 inmates, with 14 wards. While walking through these wards, I
was exposed to a side of life I could never possibly have imagined. Many of the
patients were wheelchair bound. There were 2 wards in which the patients couldn’t
move about by their own at all. They have been provided special aluminium beds and
attendants are there to take care of them. Of course the wards were not spick
& span as such. I guess it’s quite hard to maintain ultra clean wards, with
such patients, but they were quite reasonably well kept.
special aluminium beds |
What inspired me most was seeing some of the
inmates engaged in handicrafts. I, myself am not the creative type. Nor am I good
at any kind of handwork of course! I was amazed to see the lovely creations of
the inmates. There were soft toys which were quite neatly made, key chains,
flowers, bracelets etc. They were heard at work sitting in their beds & wheel
chairs. Nevertheless they were quite keen in speaking to us & sharing not
only their stories but also their products of hard work. Our group members were
heavily laden with all the products they were selling! I couldn’t help but
wonder what miracles they would work, if they were physically strong enough,
with those skillful hands of them! We learnt that their products were sold at
Hameedias, every month & they earn quite a reasonable price for themselves.
products of the inmates |
hard at work! |
They also have a sports meet every year at which they take part quite
enthusiastically. They are taken on trips to places such as Anuradhapura, Kandy
& Galle. In other words, they are made to experience life just as we do, as
much as possible.
They were quite happy with their lives, and quite
proud of themselves too. They had every right to be so. Being handicapped physically
have not stopped them from living their dreams. They are not complaining. They
are special, differently-abled & in my opinion quite mentally stronger than
most of the people in the society.
Seeing them reminded me of a famous saying,
“Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn’t be able
to fly, but the bumblebee doesn’t know that so it goes on flying anyway”
The inmates at Victoria Home certainly doesn’t let
the fact that knowing they are disabled, stop them from flying high.
Good post Sachith,
ReplyDeleteI have not been able to read all of your blogs this time as I was on the road a lot, but I see that at least some of you have got the hang of it. The main thing is to think about what you are learning all the time, to do it consciously so that you take away at least some of it for the future